11 February, 2015


What I'm wearing: 
ZARA Trousers 

Hi world. Hope you're all great! It's been such a lovely start of week and I thought why not put on something really comfy yet stylish. That on itself can be a challenge at times, as comfy clothes to some might only mean sweatpants. But hey, lets move on from that. Anyway, I titled this post 'it's all behind you' because of my pose, but also owning to the fact that it really is all behind you.

I'm all about being positive and seeing the best in every situation, which is something I am working on to improve even more this year. Positive-affirmations, meditation, good health and good social life are all quite essential, when it comes to positivity on a daily basis. However, putting everything that you've been through, what people might have done and said about you, behind you is a tough thing to do, I agree.
But to be honest, that really is the only thing you can do in order to grow. Let me please stress on GROWTH. How important is that? How great is it to look back at your life and see how much you’ve grown? I personally think moving on is an essential ‘skill’ life – being able to sort out your life; see what and you need and don’t need anymore. I call it a skill because it really is something one must master. It’s not easy letting go and it’s always easier said than done, but some people are not in your life to stay – some come in our life for a reason or only a season. This is very important to understand in order to not look back at your life bitterly.

Life is such a beautiful thing, however we must remember that family and friends add on to it. You as a person are what really matters; your health, your motivation and willingness to actually live the life you’ve been given. So if you ask me, the most important thing in life and in order to grow is to move on, LEAVE it all behind you. Because let’s face it – there comes a time where your loved ones will leave you – would that be the reason why you’ll give up on life? No! You must continue living and striving for happiness, which by the way isn’t a goal but something that should always be a part of your everyday life. Be happy, choose happiness and leave it all behind!

Forget about the pain, the exasperation and move on!

I hope it was a good read!
Until next time 

Mell O.


  1. Love your style and I love how you incorporated such a beautiful message into this OOTD post. I have just found this blog but I will definitely be keeping up with it :) Ali | The Chic Times Magazine x

  2. Hey there! You are so right, sometimes you just need to leave things in the past and move on. Don't let others hold you back or bring you down while you are on your journey. :-)

    Jayme @ Her Late Night Cravings

  3. Simplicity is the best ! Love that outfit ! :) X

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  4. We want more pictures!! Lol

    No, really.


    1. Haha, I will try my best next time!
      Thank you! X

  5. Amazing! Have a great day
    Kisses from Ukraine
    xo xo


    1. Thanks a bunch & thank you for stopping by.

  6. Great! Just found your blog, and I love it!
    Also I added you to my reading list x


  7. This is so true:-) great post and love the outfit❤️


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X Mell